Saturday, June 16, 2012

FATHER’S DAY, 17 June 2012








                                                                 “Bhoomergareeyasee maataa, swargaatuchchatarah pitaa”. Mother is superior to the earth; father is higher than the heaven. Everybody wants to defeat all; he wants to be defeated by his son only. He wants his son to be the greatest in the word. He wants all good qualities should come in his son. He is the first tutor of the child. The child starts copying its father. If the father is good, the child will automatically become good. Bad person’s son will be bad. Even the robber wants his son to become good and so he puts him in the company of good persons, far away from his atmosphere.

                                                                                   Once King Baber’s son Humanyu became ill. All doctors failed to cure him. Baber moved three rounds around his son’s bed and prayed God to save his son and take his life instead. A miracle happened; Baber became ill and died; Humanyu became cure. This is the climax of the sacrifice. Only father can do such sacrifice.

                                                 A few days ago, I was talking with a lean and thin rickshaw puller. His condition was very pitiable. I felt guilty seating in the rickshaw, but consoled myself thinking his employment and his family members depending on his earning. To my surprise! His son was also reading in the same school where officers’ sons were studying. He was bearing the expenses by the earning from the rickshaw. I wanted to give him some more fare but he refused, took only the appropriate fare, and returned the extra amount. I forgot my purse on the rickshaw in which there were some money and important papers. I was very anxious and cursing my memory. After half an hour, I saw the rickshaw puller coming. He gave my purse and advised to keep the material carefully. I offered some money but he again refused. I was surprised to see his honesty even in such a wretched condition.

                                                                        Years passed, I forgot the event and the rickshaw puller. One day, a man came to me with a sweet-packet in his hand. I did not recognize. He memorized me the past event and his identity. I recalled. He was extremely pleased. There was a glazing of self-content on his face. His son had first position in the class. I saw a father’s happiness when his son achieves some better things.

                                                    I wish my sons to be blessed all qualities of mine and of the world; all happiness go to them and their all sorrows to me. "Pitri charnabhyan bande."--------namo bhagvate sri Ramanaay.   

Friday, June 15, 2012

KANJOOS (MISER)


 Ramlal was my neighbor. He was a very rich man. He was not educated but grace of goddess Lakshami (goddess of wealth) was always on him. It is called that Lakshami and Saraswati (goddess of knowledge) cannot live together. Scholars of the village were in wretched condition and always spread hands before him. Males and females of his family worked hard in the field and produced sufficient crops of all varieties. He had thirty acres of land. Due to hard labor, the yield of the field was highest in the village though so many honorable persons had more landed property than he had. The reason was that honorable persons did not work in the field, their all works were done by labors where as Ramlal’s sons, and grandsons worked hard labor themselves. Respected persons got only half of the produced; there was none to have share in Ramlal’s crops. Moreover, there cannot be comparison between the work done by self and that of done by labors. When farmer is not active and work is left on labors, some quantity is wasted and some stolen. The remaining is divided in two parts. Few portions come to farmer’s door. A story about Ramlal’s riches is famous. His eldest daughter found a copper jar filled with gold coins while she was digging field. She came home and gave the jar to her father very secretly. No one knew the matter. He encased the gold coin very slowly and purchased land. Now he became a big property owner. Every year he purchased some land by selling crops.


                                                                     Though, Ramlal had become rich, his food habits and dress did not change. He became pleased when every member ate only bread and salt and wore ragged clothes. New generation did not tolerate and changed food habits and dresses. Ramlal could not bear and started abusing every member. Family members found out a clue. In the presence of Ramlal they pretended to eat only salt and bread. When Ram went towards fields, they ate good dishes. Ram was very pleased eating salt and bread daily, thinking that all used the same food.       

Saturday, June 9, 2012

SIL PAR PADAT NISAAN



                         Karat karat abhyaas te jadmati hot sujaan; Rasree aawat jaat te sil par padat nisaan’. Man is bound to obey habits. Adoption of good habits is a bit tougher and less interesting; bad habits are simpler and charmful. Good habits are like moving upward on a slope, bad habits are like coming downward.

                                   Everybody knows his bad and good habits. Initially it is very simple to adopt or leave a habit, good or bad. After some period, roots go deeper and habits become nature. To get rid of one’s nature is very difficult task. Only very strong determination and sadguru’s grace can change one’s nature.

                                                          In the childhood, the baby is ignorant about the good or bad habits. It may accept either of the two without any reason or according to the past life’s deeds. It is the duty of the parents to inspire good habits of the children and discourage bad habits.

                                                 When one grows to know things, he better understands his qualities and demerits. I should select habits good or bad. I should start to practise to leave bad habits. Not all evils can be removed at a time. I have to start with one. Conquering one, start the next. Similarly, good habits should be practised one by one. Initially, it may be tedium, but after sometime, I start to enjoy.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Customs




                                                            Do you know what the best day to cut your nail is? When to cut hair or when to wear new clothes is a very tough question for scholars. Which day is the best to start a journey in a particular direction? What is the best date to start the construction of a new house or the best date to start living in a new house? Do you know the best direction to sleep or eat? Which color-cloth should be worn in a particular day is the most important. In Bhadvaa (Panchak), starting journey or initiating new work is completely prohibited.

                                                  I know a person whose family obeys peculiar traditions. There is no good quality wooden or iron door in his house though he is capable to purchase it and which is most essential. Ordinary very weak shutters made of bamboos (chachri) tied with rope or iron rings havebeen used which are quite unsafe. Often cases of theft and other nuisances are heard.

                                                        I know another family, which follows another abnormal ritual. After marriage, there is a festival ‘Madhushraawani’ for new brides. On this occasion, a burning flame is touched with bride’s knee and is extinguished on the very limb. Sometimes the burnt skin wound becomes severe and causes even death. Some families have left this custom and only the cold wick is touched.

                                            In some societies, women are banned to recite ‘Gayatri-Mantra’ or Ved-Mantras. During four days of menses, they are barred to take part in religious functions. Sometimes, their involvements become must but they cannot participate due to the custom. The secrecy is disclosed and they feel great humiliations. In the present Hi-Tec period these all are superfluous. Women have become parallel to men and in some fields, they are doing better. Men cannot be equal in nursing field. In air hostesses, more percentage of  girls are allowed.    

                                               

Sunday, June 3, 2012

KAARAJ DHEERE HOT HAI KAAHE HOT ADHEER


                                                                      “Jald kaam saitaan kaa”. Haste makes waste. The work will surely be performed if there is strong will and regular endeavor. However, it shall take time. A time is fixed for every work. If you make haste, you are weakening the strength and quality. Sometimes it may destroy the product and cause the failure of the mission. The human baby comes out of mother’s womb after being matured in nine months. Due to any reason, if it comes out before, it becomes too weak and sometimes dies. Before seven months, only dead body can come out. Similarly, every creature has fixed time to take birth. Every plant grows from its seed after a fixed time.

                                                        While taming our child we show impatience. ‘My child is not getting good marks or he is not doing well in the classes', this type of question is always heard. My suggestion to all guardians is to keep patience. Sometimes, student doing well in the primary classes does not do better in the higher classes while a very dull beginner starts getting top in the higher classes. I have seen a naughty boy of the childhood doing miracles in his future life. Early days of everybody are approximately same. Guardians have to watch the habits and the companies of their wards. Rest remains the duty of the teachers. The student himself goes on the track according to his choice. If I strengthen the embankments of a river and allow the water to flow, the river will flow between the embankments. Only diverson towards the evils is to be restricted.

                                                Very few parents allow their kids to take sports as their career. But, Tendulkar, Gawaskar, Vishwanathan Anand are incomparable. Few scholars have got such name and fame.                                 

            

Saturday, June 2, 2012

SABSE BADAA-SABSE VRIHAT

Leelaajee ke sabse bade saadhoojee se aaj bhet huee. Sabse chhote saadhoo ki iklautee santaan Preetee kee saadee ek army ke Dr se 8.6.12 ko hone jaa rahee hai. Preeti swayan bhee doctor hai. Delhi me internship kar rahee hai. Ladke balon ne kaafee tyaag dikhaayaa hai. Unhone dahej men kuchh bhee lene se manaa kar diyaa hai. Ladkee ke pitaa Shree B.N. Chaudhary Bareli me J.K.Sugar men pratishthit pad par kaam karte hain. Seemit kharch ke chalte aarthik drishti se majboot hain. Inhone ek gaaree dene kee baat kahee lekin ladke ke pitaa ne manaa kar diyaa. Unkaa ek hee demand hai ki baaraat kaa swaagat shaahee andaaj men ho.
                                                        Kitane udaar vichaar hain? Is udaartaa kee jitnee prashansaa kee jaay kam hogee. Ek mahatwapoorna baat kee or dhyaan aakrishta karnaa chaahtaa hoon. Baraat ko swaagat ke shivaa aur kyaa lenaa denaa hai? Aaj- kal ke baaraat ke swaagat se main vilkul sahmat nahee hoon. Log daan-dahej men kaafee kharch karte hain lekin baaraat ke swaagat me gareebee dikhaate hain. Sankhyaa ke maamle men kaafee vriddhi ho gayee hai. Pahale ke das-bees ki jagah sau-derh sau to mamoolee baat hai. Keval daal-bhaat khilaa do, ho gayaa swaagat. Kaee jagah to bhojan par bhee aafat hai. Baaraatee ke swaagat ke liye mukhya jawabdehee ladkaa paksh kee hai. choonkee wahee baarat le jaate hain. Agar we tyaag dikhaayenge to saandaar swaagat ho saktaa hai. Lekin aisaa ho nahee paataa hai. Unhe swayan ke liye bharpoor daan dahej mil gayaa, kaafee hai. Baarat ke swagat se unhe kuchh bhee lenaa-denaa nahee hai. Ladkee waalaa bhee kewal samadhee ko khush rakhnaa chaahtaa hai. Baarat ke swaagat ki ushe kuchh bhee chintaa nahee. 'Miyaan-bibi raajee to kyaa karegaa kaajee.' Bahuto ladkee ke baap ko kahte sunaa hai 'I don't care for baaraats.'
                                                Ladke ke pitaa kee iksha hai ki shaadee Patna men ho. Kewal yahi thoda kathin kaam hai, lekin jahaan ladke ke pitaa ne itnaa tyaag dikhaaya wahan yah kathinai phool sadrish hai. Bareli me to unkaa saamraajya hai. Wahaan sachmuch shaahee swaagat hotaa. Lekin Chaudharyjee kaafee udaar vyakti hain. Swaagat men koee kor-kasar nahee chhodenge.
                                                 Leelaajee ke sabse bade saadhoojee ke baare men kaafee-kuchh sunaa thaa, aaj pratyaksh darshan hue. kuchh log door se sunane men bade lagate hain, najdeek pahunchane par baune dikhai padte hain. Iske wipareet kuchh log door se jitnee oonche sunane me aate hai, najdeek jaane par aur oonchaa maaloom padte hain, wilkul pahaad kee tarah. Bade saadhoo doosaree koti ke moorta roop hain. Sansaar ke sabhee vishayon par we saadhikaar bole sakte hain. Unkaa prakriti-prem anupam hai. Vishaakhaapatnam Steel Plant se kaafee uchch pad se retire hue hain. Town planner ke roop men inkee sevaa saraahneeya rahee hai. Plannedway men inhone aavaaseeya kshetra ko ek vrihat udyaan kaa roop diyaa hai.
                                             Unkee jeevan shailee anukarniya hai. Unhe koee wimaaree nahee hai. Abhee unkee umra shaayad 72 warsh hai. Is umra men BP, Diabetese, hriday-rog aadi anek wimaariyon ka hona swaabhaavik hai. Lekin parhej se rahnaa to koi unse seekhe. Cheenee khaanaa wilkul chhod diyaa hai unhone; tel-mashaalaa ki aadat hee nahee hai. Ek-do rotee kaafee hai. Sab-kuchh chhod sakte hain lekin subah-shaam kaa tahalnaa nahee. Bahattar saal ke yuvaa ko dekhnaa ho to aap unhe dekhen.
              Saamajik reeti-riwaaj ki unhe poorna jaankaaree haiaur kathortaa poorvak paalan karna koi unse seekhe.
                          Unkaajeevan poorna aadhyaatmik hai.Guru Baabaa (Bhagvaan Ramana Maharshi) ke vichaar ki unhe pooree jaankaaree hai. Aur bhee guruon ke gyaan ke ware me unse jaankaaree prapt kar sakte hain.
       Leelaajee sabhee saadhoo bahut achchhe hain. Sabse bade ko to sabse vrihat hona hee chaahiye.   

Friday, June 1, 2012

nanhi paree

'Mere ghar aayee ek nanhi paree.' Meethee naam hai uskaa. 24 Nov. 2011 ke theek nau baje raat me Jyoti nurshing home me sijerian dwaaraa uskaa padaarpan hua. Daadaa-Daadee kee dularee apanee peedhee ki pahalee aur abhee tak kee akelee santaan hai. Daadaajee ne maa Saardaa ke naam par uskaa naam Vaani rakha hai. Yahee naam uske passport me ankit huaa hai.
                                                                                           Uske janm ke samay ki ek baat hameshaa yaad rahegee. Main, uskee daadee, Nutan, Sapnaa ki maan, Shishirjee, Dipu uske aagman kee prateekshaa kar rahe the.Nurse operation theatre se baahar laakar hamlogon ke kamre me de gayee. Winaa bakhshish ke daadee ke haath me nahee de rahee thi. Bharpoor bakhshish lekar hee jaan chhodee. Uskee daadee god me lekar palag par baith gayee. Abhee-abhee duniyaa me aayee Meethee kamare me upasthit sablogon ko ghoor-ghoor kar dekh rahee thee. Haath munh dhokar jab Dr Jyotee hamlogon ke kamre me aayee to hamlogon ne unhe bataayaa ki sabko ghoor rahee hai. Wah bolee-'operation table par se hee sabko ghoor rahee hai.' Ho sakta hai ki nirdhaarit tithi ke chaar din baad aane ke kaaran aisaa hua ho. Uske janm kee tithi dr dwaara chaar din poorva nirdhaarit thee. Hamlogon ne normal delivery kee prateekshaa kee. Jab labor pain kaa kuchh bhee sanket nahee milaa to doctor ne sigerian kaa faislaa liyaa.
24 Nov. 2012 ko uskaa pratham janm din thaa. Abhee wah apne maataa-pitaa ke saath United States ke Sen Antoniyo sahar me hai. Hamlog pratyek din skype par use dekhte hain aur baat karte hain. Apnee umra se bdee dikhtee hai. Apne dost Sahaanaa ke saath daily khelthee hai. Khilonaa ke liye dono doston me hameshaa jhagda hotaa rahtaa hai.
            Maa Saarde kee jarror kripaa hogee aur naam ke anuroop vidyaa prapt karegee.