Monday, July 18, 2011

BEAUTY



































































Who is the most beautiful in the world? Is the physical beauty ultimate scale of measurement of beauty? Were Sita, Savitri, Draupadi, Kunti, Tara, Damyanti, Ansuiya, Mandodari, Urmila, Mother Teresa etc, physically most beautiful in the world of their times, which made them so famous? The answer will obviously be ‘no’. They might be number one in this criterion also. However, this will be paid a few percentages of the overall qualities, which made them so famous in the history.
Among the above names some are ideal wives, some ideal mother and some have adopted serving downtrodden. Consider the first name Sita. She is all-rounder and ideal woman of all forms. See her role as daughter, elder sister, wife, sister-in-law, daughter-in-law and mother. She will get cent-percent marks. Ram was ordered to go to the forest, not Sita. Nevertheless, she herself forced Ram to take her with him. Her mother and father wished to take her to Janakpur but she straightly refused. Her father-in-law, mother-in-law and all friends reminded the pain of the forest, but she made all of them answerless. Think the situation in the present context. Few women will accept the pain of the forest. Sita got infinite pains in the forest but she enjoyed, keeping her husband in the heart. When you keep your all burden in the train, you enjoy the journey. This type of devotion she had for her husband. When you worship your husband like guru and god, your all problems will be solved automatically. Your tastes, likes and dislikes will be same to your husband. Ram, Sita and Lakshaman go to the great sage Atri’s cottage, when they saw that lot of the people started to gather around them at Panchvati. Maharshi sent Sita to his wife Ansuiya. Ansuiya was most pious woman in the universe. She taught Sita the qualities of a pativrata (the woman whose husband is everything in her life). There are four categories of women. The first never thinks about another person but husband. The second thinks like brother, son, father, uncle etc. The third has softness for another male but fearing the family and social dignity does not involve in corruption. The fourth has no fear, always thinks about another male and is very involved in corruption. The third and fourth become widow in so many future births. The first should be worshipped like goddess. The second is general woman but can go lower or higher according to the company. These types of women have more inclination towards their mother side. They ignore in-laws and sometimes husbands also. Sita is herself an ideal woman and doesn’t need preaching. In the last, Ansuiya also said that preaching was not for her but for the whole world. Savitri is similar. She is ideal wife, ideal daughter, ideal sister and ideal daughter-in-law. She proved herself unique wife who brought the soul of her husband from Yamraj (the god of death). Urmila gladly sent her husband with the elder in the forest and lived fourteen years alone. Can this sacrifice be imagined in present time when one brother kills his own brother for selfishness? Mother Teresa sacrificed her life in the service of down trodden. All other names above mentioned are famous for sacrifices, purity and other heavenly qualities.
The obvious conclusion about the beauty is clear. The person whose overall character is good is the most beautiful. Only physical beauty is of zero importance rather, beautiful wife has been called enemy. Internal chaste is of prime importance. Holy, divine, religious and saintly character should be worshipped.

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