कामेश्वर(१)

Sitaram lived at Dhanga. His father's name was Heebharan. He had three sons, Bule, Kameshwar and Tuna. Sitaram was married to Lakshmidutta’s daughter at Karmauli. Lakshmidutta had two sons and three daughters. His both sons died without son. Kameshwar started to help his nanaji at Karmauli. The eldest Bule and the youngest Tuna remained at Dhanga and Kameshwar became permanent resident of Karmauli. Kameshwar had five sons and one daughter. Serially they were Tejnarayan, Harinarayan, Ghurani, Ugresh, Kamal and Mahendra. The single daughter Ghurani died at the age of thirty in 1970. She had four children, two sons and two daughters. They are Babu saheb, Amar, Meena and Ameera. Babu Saheb is doing job at Patna. Amar is director of a coaching institute. Meena was married at Pali and her husband is doing job at Kolkata. Ameera was married at Balha and her husband is doing job somewhere. Ghurani was very gentle. She was exceptional. But God does not allow good persons to live in the world more. He calls such persons near him soon. Ghurani’s husband Chandrakant is also a gentle person. He is a spiritual man and worships daily. But his single negative action spoiled his all gentleness. After the death of Ghurani, he married at Balha. There may be so many excuses. However, there can’t be any answer regarding the age difference. What can be told about the Maithil Brahmins social rules that after the death of wife, male can marry with a maid. He is not allowed to marry with a widow or divorcee. Nevertheless, after the death of husband, female is not allowed to marry. She has to lead her life alone being the widow of her late husband. What a privilege to men! If women can lead her whole life being a widow, why not men as a widower? On the other hand, why not female can marry a bachelor like male, after the death of her husband. Chandrakant’s second wife is also a very pious woman. She is always busy in worshipping God. She is ill fated. That is why she was born in a poor family and her parents got married their beautiful young daughter to a widower of the age of her father. She has one son of her own. He is also doing job somewhere. She is very popular and always praises us. She behaves us like own sister. She never treated our sister’s children like stepmother, rather these kids are faulty. Their behaviour is perhaps not matured. However they love their step mother and step brother too much. The eldest son of my sister is Babu Saheb. His mother died when he was twelve year old. He was in class six or seven. I was in class eleven. He became an orphan. After the death of mother, when stepmother comes, father’s behavior also changes. Anyhow, he passed matriculation. He stopped his study and started to search a job. In the course of searching job, he visited so many places and met different types of persons. He became matured and got better knowledge of politics.So many clues of politics automatically came in him. He began visiting veteran politicians. This experiance helped him too much. Now the situation is that he has become master of politics. Though he is a simple clerk in state government, he keeps so many legislures in his pocket. Kaluahi block came in existace so earlier due to him. He has earned a good amount of money and purchased so many acres of land in the village. He has constructed a good house and a good darwaja (a sitting space where guests stay). Now he has become a famous person of the village and society. He has personal relation with so many IAS. One can get detailed knowledge about any IAS from him. His relatives also regards him too much. His eldest maternal uncle Tejnarayan is also matured and experianced. He has good tuning with him. He is occassionally busy in his proclamation. TNJ got his youngest daughter Babloo married at Maltole and the mediator was Babu Saheb. Nevertheless, the rest four maternal uncles have not so much attachment. That is why he and his family has close relation only with TNJ and has little relation with other fours. There was a bit relationship with the fourth kamaljee. Once his one son became seriously ill. He did not inform kamaljee who was living in the same city. Kamaljee came to know through another person. He at once went to IGIMS. After enquiring about the patient, he knew that he was dead. He sent his eldest son at Maltole to console. Nevertheless, Babu Saheb did not give value to this consolation. He only thought about Kamaljee’s presence and spoke about the matter to TNJ, which was latter communicated to Kamaljee through him. Once on the ‘Jagyonpavit’ ceremony of his stepbrother, Kamaljee and Tejnarayan visited Maltole.Babu Saheb did not give much importance to Kamaljee regarding offering dishes. Even then, Kamajee stayed there for more than eight hours. However, thanks to the greatness of Babu Saheb! He criticized negatively in Tejnarayan’s ears about Kamaljee. This was again communicated to him through TNJ. But over all I am proud of my this very nephew. He is self made and has established his family. He has struggled too much. he has earned name and fame in the society. He has got married his two sisters and two brothers. He is the back boon of his family. Even leading his life in wretched condition, he has given his family a pleasant life. May god bless him more success.
The 2nd son of Ghurani is Amar. He has become matured. He has also induced by the character of his elder. He has his own talent also. He is also progressing too much. He is also very brave to fight with odds. The daughters Meena and Ameera are better and they are obedient to their all maternal uncles. They know their brothers and maternal uncles well. The nature has given peculiar nature to each and every creature. When you get all comforts your progress is retarted. When you are struggling, you shine more like gold coming out of fire. The plant in the shade does not develop. Contrarily, the plant in the open field which faces the sun, the rains, the winds gets all round development. -----------contd.