Please help me.

I am helpless I am surrounded by so many enemies. First, I am slave of my culture. From the very beginning, I was taught not to speak a lie. This became my permanent enemy.  One of my friend always speaks lie.  He pleases every body by his lying skill. He gives every thing by words but physically, nothing. Contrary to it, I offer more and more but, due to unskilled speaker or silence follower I am unable to please anybody. There are other enemies like- 1.not to hurt anybody by talks or behavior, 2. always trying to please others scarifying my own wishes. 3. not to be angry even if someone misbehaves. 4. always impartiality ignoring relation, cast or religion etc.
                                                               I am remembering one event. I was attending the thread ceremony of the son of a relative. To please him and to strengthen the relation, I had offered so many gifts according to my capacity. At the time of main function, I was at some distance enjoying the ceremony. I saw the relative very busy in chatting with my brother. They were gossiping very silently which I was unable to hear. Rather, they were whispering in each other's ear to hide their talks from me. I was not so pleased seeing the food material offered to eat. Rather the food which I never like was served before me and my brother. My brother was pleased with the gossip and he praised the food. This is human weakness to be pleased hearing abuses for others and praises for oneself. I was in normal position. Not knowing his mental position, I wanted to say something against the served food. My brother stopped me and again praised. I at once became mum. After the function, we came home. My brother did not tell me anything. But, he is unable to keep secrecy. Being forced by his talkative habits, he disclosed his secret talks with the very relative to some third person.The third person said everything to me. All matters were against me. I became too much annoyed. When the relative's father came to me I told him the matter. He apologized. But, his son never new my anguish.   

Ram, the greatest statesman

 

                                                             If u want to do better for the society, one thing is must to be done; you will have to get rid of anti-socials, whether they may be your near and dear or outsiders. If you don’t want to hit directly, you will have to search a way, so that you can kill the snake without a scratch on the stick. You should search a clue to reach the paining limb and operate, without any hue and cry. Stories of ‘Puranas- old epics’ indicates towards the very process. You see the character of Ram. It was dead sure that Ram would be the king of Ayodhya, because he was the eldest son of king Dasrath. He doesn’t show hurry. He is very calm. He thinks over the matter very deeply. His stepmother ‘Kaikeyi’ has very sharp brain. She loves Ram more than she loves her own son ‘Bharat’. Ram also loves her more than his own mother. When Dasrath wanted to make him king, it was not the right time. Very powerful enemies of the society were in the forests and in neighbouring countries. He had killed some anti-socials when he had gone to forest with the famous saint Vishwamitra. In the very journey, he married Sita. But, still some terrorists were alive. For good governance, killing of those elements was must. Ram heard about him to be crowned, he went in deep thought. Finding no way, he rushed to his dearest stepmother and sought her help. Her maid servant was more intelligent, She called her. Ram, Kaikeyee and Manthara began to think over the matter jointly. They reached to a very tough conclusion. Kaikeyi and Manthara accepted the task to be cursed by the whole world. Kaikeyi would beg the word from Dasrath who had promised to fulfill long ago. Ram would go to the forest. What a great sacrifice of those three! Unparalleled example of all time! Not knowing the fact, we always abuse the above two women. Dasrath did not know the plan, went to death. Ram knew the result that his father would not survive. Even then, for the sake of society, he went to the forest for 14 years. He tolerated the separation from his dearest wife; Ravan had kidnapped Sita, the Ram’s consort.

                                                                       Ram takes the help of monkeys, bears, vultures, and good giants (down trodden persons of the society). He kills Ravan along with all his warriors. The world became free from anti socials. Automatically, Ram-Rajya was established.

                             In the present context, it is very proper. First, you become free from negatives; heaven has to come certainly. See successful administrator. In the very beginning of his joining at new place, he put the criminals behind the bar. An image of the officer is created. The atmosphere becomes peaceful. The officer leads the rest period successfully without much tension.    

                                                                                              19^th April, 2013; Ram-navmi day.

समय समय के बात

आइ सुनीलक सबस' जेठ पुत्रक विवाह छनि. हुनकर बहुत आग्रह रहितो अस्वस्थताक कारणे जयवा मे असमर्थ छी. तावरतोर फ़ोन आबि रहल अछि. नीलूक माय सेहो कैक दिन स' बोखार मे परल छथि. सुनीलक मोन मे बहुत दु:ख हेतनि जे नहि एलाह, मुदा इच्छा रहितो नहि जा सकै छी.

मा शारदे

                                                                                                                                                                   'रूप यौवन सम्पन्ना विशाल कुल सम्भवा. विद्या हीना न शोभन्ते निर्गन्धा इव किन्सुकाः'. विद्या विहीन मानव दोपाया पशु ही तो है.                                          'विद्या विहीना  पशुभिः समाना'. आज वसन्त पञ्चमी के दिन मा शारदा की पूजा पूरी श्रद्धा-भक्ति से इसी मानवता प्राप्ति हेतु करणीय है. केवल शास्त्रीय ज्ञान नही, आत्म ज्ञान. सद्-असद् ज्ञान. 'आत्मवत् सर्व भूतेषु यः पश्यति सः पण्डितः'. अज्ञान तिमिर मे भटकते जीवो को ज्ञान चक्षु प्रदात्री मा ही तो है. यदि सभी जीवो की शिव भाव से पूजा नही की तो मानव जीवन व्यर्थ मे गवाया. अपने लिये तो सभी जीव जीते हैं, परायो के लिये जीना ही तो देवत्व है.
             ज्ञान की अधिष्ठात्री 'वाणी' की आराधना से सभी विद्याओ` की प्राप्ति संभव है.
                                            श्रिष्टि के रचयिता ब्रह्मा की वामाङ्गा उनकी प्रेरणा ही तो हैं. मा की ईक्षा से ही तीनो देवगण (ब्रह्मा, विष्णु, महेश), सर्जन, पालन एवं प्रलय करते हैं.
                                  माघ मास की पञ्चमी तिथि (वसन्त पञ्चमी) मा के पूजन का दिन है.स्कूल-कालेज के छात्र विद्या प्राप्ति की कामना लिये सुबह से ही अर्चन-भजन मे लगे हुए हैं. --------जय मा शारदे.    
 

विशेष

किछु दिन पूर्व नालन्दा के भ्रमण केलहु. नालन्दा विश्वविद्यालयक खण्डहर घुमैत काल ओकर समृद्धिक कल्पना स' अभिभूत छलहु. प्राचीनकाल मे हम कतेक आगू छलहु, ई प्रतीक थिक. खण्डहरक प्रत्येक भाग विश्व प्रसिद्ध विद्यागारक बखान क' रहल छल. ई अहि बातक द्योतक थिक जे जाहि काल मे दुनियाक अन्य देश बहुत पिछरल छल, हमर नालन्दा दुनियाक ज्ञानक भण्डार छल; विश्वक विद्यालय छल. ज्ञानक दुश्मन बख्तियार-खिल्जी के मानवताक दुश्मन कहि सकैत छी. गाइड के मुह स' सुनलहु जे पुस्तकालय मे लगाओल गेल आगि तीन मास धरि धधकैत रहल. पुस्तकालय कतेक समृद्ध छल ई अही स'पता चलैत अछि.

                                                                                    खण्डहर देखलाक बाद सारिल्चक गाम  देखय गेलहु. अही गामक भगवान वुद्धक प्रमुख शिष्य सारिपुत्र छलाह. सम्भवतः गामक नाम स' सारिपुत्रक नाम वा हुनके नाम पर गामक नाम राखल गेल होयत. ओहि गामक जैविक खाद  आ ओहि स' उपजाओल कोबी, अल्लू देखिते बनैत छल. एकटा कृषक प्रयोगक रूप मे अपनहि एकटा खेत मे जैविक  आ दोसर मे रासायनिक खादक प्रयोग क' कोबी लगौने छलाह. मुदा जैविक के परतर रसायनिक की करत ? उपज  आ स्वाद दूनू मे जैविक अव्वल होइछ. ओहि कृषक के पुत्र आइ.आइ.टी. दिल्ली मे पढैत छनि. मेधावी पिताक मेधावी पुत्र सर्वथा स्वाभाविक. ओही गामक मसरूमक उत्पादन देखि अर्थशास्त्रक नोवेल विजेता प्रो. स्टिग्लिज बाजि उठलाह- 'भारतीय किसान, वैज्ञानिक स' बेसी काबिल छथि'. बटर-मसरूम'क उत्पादन-पद्धति आर बेसी वैज्ञानिक बुझायल.           

दीपावली 2012

 'तमसो मा ज्योतिर्गमय'. अन्धकार स' हमरा प्रकाश मे ल' चलू . अग्यानान्धकार स' ज्ञान-प्रकाश दिस ल' जयवाक संकेत. ज्ञान स' तात्पर्य अक्षर-ज्ञान वा शास्त्रीय ज्ञान नहि, अपितु आत्म-ज्ञान दिस संकेत अछि. लक्ष्मी आ गणेश दूनूक पूजन होइछ. लक्ष्मी सुख-समृद्धिक प्रतीक, त' गणेश विघ्नहरन. संगहि 'गणानां ईशः गणेशः'   

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                           कुसियार'क रस देखि मोन ठन्ढेवाक इच्छा व्यक्त केलक. संग्रहालयक चहारदिवारिक आगू गाछ सबहक छाहरि मे दू गिलाश पीलहु. रस पिबैत काल एकटा अपरिचित लग मे आयल. बाजल- हम गाइड छी, मात्र 5 रुपैया मे संम्पूर्ण सारनाथ घुमा देव. हम सशन्कित भ' मना केलिऐक- नै-नै, हमरा लग पाइ-कौडी नहि अछि; हम अपने स' घूमि लेब, अहा हमर पिङ्ड छोडू. मुदा ओ मङ्नीएके घुमाब' पर तैयार भ' गेल, मात्र एक कप चाह पिया देवाक आग्रह केलक. हमरा सनक शुद्धा आदमी; विसवास क' लेलिऐक, ई नहि सोच' लगलहु जे ऐ घोर कलियुग मे विना लोभ के कियो नहि अहाक पाछू घुमि सकैत अछि. ओ हमरा पश्चिम भागक दक्छिन-उत्तर सडक पर ल' गेल. खुदाई-स्थल देखाइ छल, मुदा रस्ता सुनसान छल. हमरा सन्देह भेल आ हम चोट्टे घूमि क' तेजी स' दक्षिन दिसा मे भगलहु. ओ बहुत सोर पारलक मुदा हम ओकरा दिस तकबो नहि केलहु. कुसियार बेच'बला लग आबि गेलहु जत' बेसी भीड छल. ओतहि पूरा सारनाथक जानकारी पाबि, सन्ग्रहालय, ख़ुदाई-स्थल, चिडिया-घर सब ठाम एसगरे घुमलहु. एसगर घूमक आनन्द वर्णनातीत होइछ. ने कियो रोक'बला आ ने टोक'बला.
मोन परिगेल पाण्डीचेरीक यात्रा। एकटा आस्ट्रेलियन भेट भेल छल । हम गप्पक क्रम मे पूछि देने छलिऐक-"आर यू एलोन?" चोट्टहि उत्तर देलक -"जर्नी एलोन इज़ दी बेस्ट". ओहि समय ओकर बात पर ध्यान नहि देलिऐक, हम दू गोटे छलहु। कतेको बेर विभिन्न विषय पर मत-भिन्नता भ' जाइत छल। कतेको बेर इच्छा के विपरीत यात्रा/कार्य कर' पड़ल। गांधी जी सेहो एसगर रहवाक अधिक महत्व देने छथि। ज' एसगर रहब मुश्किल हो त' दोसगर, मुदा ताहि स' बेशी कदापि नहि।
  आइ एसगर मे ओकर बात सही बुझा रहल अछि। कियो व्यवधान कर'बला आइ  नहि अछि। जत' मोन हो जाउ, जाहि वस्तुक इच्छा हो खाऊ। एसगर मे लोक अपना असली घर (हृदय ) मे रहि सकैत अछि मुदा समूह मे सान्सारिकताक आनन्द ल' सकैत अछि, आत्मस्थ भेनाइ मुश्किल छैक. ऐ मामला मे हम गलत भ' सकै छी। सत्संग के सामुहिक प्रचलन छैक । अनेको सम्प्रदाय मे  सामुहिक पूजा-अर्चना होइछ।  -------------