Sunday, June 28, 2015

problems



A real teacher is that who makes students understand the matter which he teaches. If one student doesn’t understand a question, it is not only his fault; the teacher is also equally faulty. If someone can’t explain anything in a simple way, means he is himself ignorant of the problem. So many teachers don’t do home work. They go to the class without proper preparation. They start to learn there, himself. How is it possible to teach if you don’t know yourself?                                                                                                                                                                                There is an interesting story. A student asked a sum to his teacher. The teacher started to teach the solution of the problem. In fact, he was himself not knowing to solve the problem. But, the prestige forced him to pretend that he knew the solution. Sometimes, though I don’t understand but being afraid of the teacher, I nod my head to indicate that I have understood. But, the student was not of such type. He told straight that he didn’t understand. The teacher taught seven times but the student didn’t give positive signal. Suddenly, a glazing of pleasure came on the teacher's face as if he had known the solution. He scolded the student, ‘In the course of teaching, I have seen solution. But, you are more dullard than me.’ The student requested to repeat once more. In the eighth time, the student understood the solution.

                                                                                             The solution is always hidden in the problem, if the problem is genuine. The only thing is that you have to know the problem calmly. First, read the question patiently with cool mind. If you understood the question, you have solved the problem.

                                                  Now, I want to come on the problems of real life and their solution. In everyone’s life problems come. Some face them very boldly and make solution. Some fly away from the problem and go in another way. And, some become nervous and go in depression or make suicide. The first type of persons is real brave. The second type will ultimately reach in third type because flying away is no solution. In every way problem will come and a time will come when I will be surrounded with unlimited problems. If one problem is unsolved, it creates another problem and thus I myself create infinite problems. Brave persons never tame anxieties. Very calmly, I should see the cause. If I come to know the cause and remove it, problem is solved. Kill the germs at the source itself, no disease can take birth. Sometimes, I say, ‘I shall solve it latter’. This is real demerit. If some negative enter in a network, it will surely do some negative work and a day can come when this can damage the network. So antivirus in the beginning is essential so that one can sleep peacefully. Even if the problem seems impossible, never lose your patience. Never take decision hurriedly or in emotion. Balance should always be maintained. Positive thought should always be adopted. Destructive (negative) thought creates repentances. In adverse situation, always think in calm mood. Heated iron is beaten by cold one. Never be anxious. If you are ill, take advice of a good doctor and sleep well. If some judicial problems occur, go to a prominent lawyer and take rest. The gist is that, one should go to the specialist of the particular field and should pray to The Almighty and be quiet and take rest calmly. The appropriate solution is dead sure to come. The Almighty gives best suitable solution to everyone. He is true impartial judge.    

                                          

Saturday, May 23, 2015

माँ

माय क बराबरी कियो नहि क' सकैछ। कहल गेल छैक जे जौं कियो मायक बराबरीक नाटक करय त'ओकरा डाइन बुझू। ओहि बच्चा स' बेसी  अभागा क्यो 

रुचिपूर्ण कार्य

विना मोन के कोनो काज केनाइ उचित नहि। दबाब मे कैल काज कदापि शत-प्रतिशत परिणाम नहि द' सकैछ। बच्चा पर कोनो ख़ास विषय के लेल दबाब नहि देबाक चाही। ओकरा जाहि क्षेत्र मे सबस' बेसी रूचि होइक ओही मे भिरेबाक चाही। हमरा समाजक कोनो अभिभावक अपना बच्चाके कॅरिअर के रूप मे खेल के नहि लेब' देथिन। मुदा ज' यैह मानसिकता तेंदुलकर, सायना नेहबाल,सानिया मिर्जा आ विश्वनाथन आनन्दक पिता रखितथि त' हमसभ हुनका लोकनिक अद्भुत प्रतिभा स' बंचित रहि जैतहुँ।  अमिताभ बच्चन कत' पबितहुँ ?    

Sunday, April 26, 2015

SITA NAVAMEE


Sita’s character in Ramayana is full of sorrows. Raajaa Janak found her in the field while ploughing. It is said that Ravan, the king of Lanka was a very wicked giant. He collected the blood of sages and put it in a jar. Shutting the mouth of the jar, he put it under the ground at Sitamarhi in Mithila, the state of King Janak. This was turned into a beautiful girl child, Sita which appeared during cultivation. That was the reason that since very childhood, Sita was very genius and strong (The child produced by the collection of blood of so many sages will naturally be possessing enormous energy). She daily lifted the bow of Lord Shiva while sweeping the floor under the bow. This was the very bow which no one became able to lift except Ram. Even ten thousand kings could not lift it jointly. Ram lifted it and when he tried to incline it and to put the thread on, it was broken in two pieces with a loud sound.
                                                                           Now, we can think the power of Sita and Ram. Sita had more energy than ten thousand kings and Ram had unlimited power. Ravan didn’t dare even to touch the bow. Then, how is it possible that he can kidnap Sita forcibly. Sita, with the consent of Ram, herself went with the demon to kill him and all his wicked supporters. Before the abduction, Ram says,’ Sita, you stay sometime in the fire while I am killing the satans’. It clearly says that Ram had planned to kill Ravan far before. This may be called to catch a savage by putting him in illusion. There were several causes to kill the monster, but Ram wanted some stronger cause. The abduction of one’s wife is sufficient reason to kill the kidnapper and his supporters to recover his wife. The monster fell in the trap. No moralist can support such abductor. So, all good persons of the world supported Ram’s act. Hence, I can say that Ram was greater politician than Ravan. Ravan had only animal power. Before moralist, animalism cannot stay long.
                                                                   Sita is ideal in every field. She is a model daughter, model wife, model daughter-in-law, model sister-in-law and model in every relation that a woman can have. King Dasrath had ordered Ram to go to forest, not to Sita. Her parents, in-laws and all other relatives forbade her to go to jungle indicating the threat of  demons and other difficulties there. But, she strongly opposed and went with Ram saying that there is no happiness anywhere for a woman without husband. “Toot foot ghar tapkat khatiyo toot; piya ke banh usisbaan sukh ke loot”. Meaning is, ‘The house is damaged and the roof is leaking, the cot is damaged but the pleasure is indescribable if the arm of husband is available as pillow.’ I.e. wife’s heaven is with husband and nowhere. In the present context, we cannot think about that. To-days women are far more advance and think these orthodoxies futile. That’s why; no couple can be imagined to become Sita and Ram. Of course, Ram is also unavailable. Only crowd of Majnoos is found.
                                                                     In the Ramayana, Sita’s character has become more superior on some occasion than even Ram. Ram tests Sita by ordering her to enter into the fire. He sends Sita to the forest while she was pregnant, only to show him just on the blame of an ordinary person like a washer man. Is it justice? Why Ram shouldn’t go to the test to enter into the fire? This can be said the decision of male dominating society. But, this shouldn’t be taken like that. Ram bears more pain without Sita. Husband without wife is more helpless and in more pitiable condition. But, Ram accepts this challenge. This should be taken as “The king gives more importance to the most ordinary person than his dearest wife”. This character is impossible today.
                                                 Sita obeys all orders without murmuring, thinking that her husband cannot be wrong. How many women can have such faith on her husband? Rather, women have more faith on her maternal side’s persons than her husband. In more cases, the thought of the couple is just reverse to each other causing quarrelling most of the time. The fault is of both sides. Husband never gives proper regard to his wife.
                                                                               On this pious day of Maa Janakee’s birth day, we should take oath to be Ram and Sita. -----------------------------Jay Maan Jaanakee. ---------------ON Jaanakee Navamee.

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Saturday, March 7, 2015

प्रेम

एकटा अविकशित बच्चा के देखि रहल छी। ओ अपने स' किछु ने क' सकैत अछि। चौबीसो घंटा माय'क परिचर्या मे रहैत अछि। पूरा गाम के ओकर जिनगी बोझ बुझना जाइत छैक, मुदा मायक सबस' दुलारू बच्चा ओ अछि। मायक कोंचा मे घुमैत-फिरैत ओ बीस बरखक भ' गेल। मुदा एखनो पांच बरखक बच्चे बला सबटा क्रिया-कलाप। खेलाइतो-धुपाइतो अछि ओही तुरक बच्चे सब संगे।
                                      ओकरा मायक संगे जखन गप्प हैत त' कखनो ने कखनो ओ जरूर जना देत जे ओकर बच्चा दुनियाक सबस' बुधियार बच्चा अछि।
सुंदरता प्रेम मे छैक। जकरा स' प्रेम अछि ओकर सब क्रिया-कलाप नीके लगैछ। जकरा स' घृणा अछि ओकर नीको कृत्य अधलाह बुझाइछ। कोनो महिला के पुछियौ जे तोहर सासुर नीक कि नैहर। शत-प्रतिशत जवाब आयत- नैहर। जे कोनो कारण होउक नैहरक सब बस्तु नीके लगैछ।   

Friday, March 6, 2015

फगुआ (होली)

फगुआ, वसंतोत्सव,रंगोत्सव के बहुत २ हार्दिक बधाई। अपन काज-राज मे व्यस्त व्यक्ति पावनि-तिहारक लाथे बीच-बीच मे मनोरंजन क' लैछ आ तरोताजा भ' क' नव ऊर्जाक संग पुनः अपन व्यवसाय मे जुटि जाइछ। देह के गलाब' ठिठुराब' बला जाड़ भागल। वसंतोत्सव खूब जोश स' मनबै जाउ। समशीतोष्ण मौसम सम्यकत्वक परिचायक थिक। हाड़ गलाब'बला जाड़ वा देह जरब'बला गर्मी मे ध्यान-भजन मोन स' नहि भ' पबैछ। बुद्ध के कोन ज्ञान भेटलैन ? सम्यकत्वक। कतबो उपास केला, शान्ति कहाँ भेटलैन। उल्टे भूख परेसान क' देलकैन।
                                                                      अबै जाउ, जतेक बुराइ अछि सब के होलिका संगे भस्म करै छी।जारनि के बदला मे गाम-घर के गंदगी-कचरा के जरबैत छी। आपस मे प्रेम के रंगक वर्षा करै छी। जाति-सम्प्रदाय के बिसरा क' एक-दोसरा के गला लगबै छी। होलिका-दुर्बुद्धि के जराऊ; हिरण्यकशिपु-अहंकार के नृसिंह-ज्ञान स' नाश करै जाउ। प्रह्लाद-भक्ति, विश्वास के रक्षा करै जाउ।

    

Thursday, March 5, 2015

PRESENT


 

Old is called gold but present is never inferior to it. Rather I want to say that present is far better than both the past and future. Past is our heritage and future is our beautiful imagination. We become proud remembering our glorious past. I tame an ultimate story of my future life. But, one thing is peculiar in human nature that we never think seriously for the present. The past is gone which cannot come back. The future is uncertain which may be or may not be achieved. If ideal situation comes and Almighty pours His grace, one can achieve his imagination. Otherwise it is only dream. Thus I can say that both past and future are not in one’s hand. Present may be called to be in one’s hand (Although it is also dependant on the Almighty). But, I never try to make my present perfect. I waste most of my time repenting on past and on imagination of future.

                                                    Leaving laziness, I can enroll my name in the list of most successful persons. But, we don’t do that. Most of the time, I weep on the past and always remain in sorrow remembering demise of my near and dear. In this course, I again go to the dark forgetting to reform my present taking task from the past. A lady named Neera is my neighbor. She never enjoys with her children and husband. I see her always sad telling story of her dead parents. I laugh on her situation. Her husband brings special food items but she never co-operates and never enjoys family life. Her husband and children want to celebrate the Sunday holiday by preparing and eating special food but she goes on fasting on this very day. She has made her family life charmless.              
                                                        I suggest, friends! always enjoy the present without caring past and future but remaining in self (control), discipline. Make your present excellent, beautiful and ideal to be followed by everyone.